The Reviewing Room


When we die and pass from this world and into the Spirit World, we enter the reviewing room where we (without ego) get to view the consequences of every action taken, and every word spoken or unspoken both to ourselves and to other people. Every person goes through this, there are no exceptions. We get to look carefully at everything that is of God, and everything that is separate from God. Loving actions, and fearful reactions. Everything that is not brought back into balance from this life, and or forgiven by us, we get to review carefully, and sort out that pile . So that of which is separate from God gets cataloged into the karma pile.
As we look out across humanity, and see those who deliberately hurt people for personal gain. Those people are creating a mountain of karma, and for some the darkness is so great that they will return to the mineral kingdom for extended review (a place where humans will never physically touch).
We’ve been told that we can heal this mountain of karma in an instant, or throughout a thousand lifetimes. It is resolved through forgiveness while in devotion to God (or whatever your language is for that), deeper and more profound than just once a week. When we relinquish our obedience to our higher-self/god-self/higher-power, we overcome great spiritual discords in leaps and bounds. This form of spiritual gardening can teach us many layers of light and dark, as we release our sense of self and ego, and connecting to become apart of God.
So think carefully before speaking, and take time and special care to heal the anger we carry deep inside, while still standing on this ground.

My blessings to you…

A Path of Light


When looking at the ego all we see is darkness. When I look out across humanity, and see people fighting with “what is”, I see people choosing the path of darkness. Everything that is negative, that produces the feelings of pain, shame, guilt, mistrust, losing ground, anger is the darkness of ego. This darkness is what it looks and feels like to be off our life-path. Because our true life-path is life affirming, pure joyful experiences, and bountiful abundance. Most are choosing to fight against this, instead of owning it. When something doesn’t easily come together, that means it’s out of alignment with what is life affirming and essential for your life to flourish.
When we sit in the mud of this darkness, and stare at what doesn’t work, we are choosing to dwell in that darkness. Instead of being revengeful, and choosing to hurt that person. Choose to forgive them, and bless them on their way, then step out of that situation. Remove ourselves from everything negative. Be very selective about how we program our minds. The art of discernment (the art of seeing beyond, and therefor make better choices) is a personal relationship we have with our environment, and a constructive tool when practicing boundaries.

“There is no wrong direction, only choices”. However, it is wise to say at some point we either learn the difference between the path that leads to darkness, or the path that leads to light, and somewhere in there hopefully we learn that we do have a choice.
When we feel frustrated, angry, shame, guilt… we are in the mud of darkness. We’ve all been there, so we all know all so well what darkness is. So when we are feeling frustrated, the way out of that space is to look straight at light and laughter, and what that is. Then choose to dwell in that environment. Or we look at the situation/activity we were in, and choose not to participate in that again. Or we go as far as to look at the people we surround ourselves with that either bring joy or sadness.
When we ask ourselves “does this inspire and energize me”, for situations we’re thinking about engaging in, or people to to be involved with, and by following the “yes” of this question we surround ourselves with joyful abundance.

As we go through the process of doing our inner work (as in changing fear into love), we remove all the junk that clogs the channels for that abundance to flow freely. Darkness holds back our abundant life, holding it in limbo until we wake up from the illusion of fear; the illusion that this is all there is, and step out into the light and life affirming self awareness; finding that space within yourself that is joyful, feeding your mind with something that makes you laugh, instead of angry. So when you’re feeling down find something to laugh at, shift that ugly awareness into joy… Change the channel.
In the beginning it may take a while to get out of that mud. However with practice we learn to catch it sooner: “oh I’m doing it again”, then shift the pattern. The faster we bounce back from this, the less and less time we spend in darkness, and the more joyful abundance fills our experiences. Being able to think yourself out of that maze; solving  these problems happens more readily when we choose to be light-hearted.

So notice the difference when something that is a challenge to overcome, or something that comes easily and effortlessly to you. If I want to buy a new something and the money is not coming easily for it, then it’s simply not meant to be at this time. Or if I want to say something to her, and the words aren’t coming clear, then I’m not meant to share this at this time, or this kind of information is not for her to understand, and I must rephrase my words. Discover what comes into alignment easily and what does not, then give your precious attention to what does, and watch your life flourish.
This has nothing to do with your “comfort zone”, this has everything to do with the construction of your life-path, as it comes to you, and your involvement in that unfolding.
Your life is waiting for you to come into alignment with this understanding for the joy that life is.

My blessings to you…

The Spark of Light


Darkness is strong and thick, restrictive and limiting as it sucks you under it’s cloak. Smothering and choking as it squeezes the life out of you. When darkness has filled every corner of a space, and we get the feeling that it has rooted into every crack.
All it takes to transform that entire place is the smallest spark of light. Once light is lit, it’s transforming force stays steadfast even when we think the light has gone out. Darkness does not have a chance of standing up in light.
God’s kiss of eternal light within you has the strength to overcome anything that steps before it. All it needs to integrate into your life is your choice to nurture it and give it purpose.


The State of Affairs

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002 (5)The movies being made today like everything else in the world, are such teachers of light and dark. Showing the hero and the victim, completely reactionary, neither side is being emotionally responsible. Not much gray area anymore. So very dark with fight, fight, fight… until we learn the truth of it.
If you find yourself in a place where you learn the dark truth of something that’s out of your control to change, physically step away. Protect your heart by removing yourself from the situation. All that exists in the dark is about to fall back into the shadows from which it has come, and you don’t want to be close to it when it goes. For out of its desperation for survival it won’t hesitate in taking you with it.

The Cave of Darkness


When a person has cheated on their lover without permission, and is feeling the shame, guilt and grief by it all. When (he) chooses to confess to her, he is pulling her into the cave of shame and darkness with him, instead of coming out into the light with her. Anytime this level of pain is shared with the other involved, it does nothing and creates more grief (it’s when guilt is shared with someone who’s unaware of it). It is the darkest side of the ego to want to share the deepest shame and guilt with another person, in such a way that they feel it with you. Confessing such darkness creates such darkness.
By stepping out into the light he finds his way out of this mess by having the actions of: “what can I do with her today that is positively different from yesterday… Everyday”? And forgiveness of oneself for stepping out of line… Forgiveness without judgement. Confession happens with God and God alone.
And if you must tell someone, that someone must remain a complete stranger to everyone within his and her circle of friends.


* The lightness you feel by telling (her) is the shameful weight you have past onto her, so she feels it for you, and complete irresponsibility on your part! Telling her just dumps it all in her lap, when it’s not hers to process. This is your burden; your cross to bare. In telling her, you’re incapable of manning-up and setting her free. So in telling her you know she will do it for you. So as she walks out with everything you own, that is the price you pay for not manning-up and setting her free before you cheat.
* Another reason for (him) to tell her is to bring her down and bring himself up so they are now eye to eye. Because being eye to eye means that they are now connecting again, no matter how dysfunctional it is. Choosing a more balanced response in the heat of the moment requires responsibility with focus and attention. Discovering other more positive ways in responding is time well spent. This inner work of changing behavioral patterns shortens the journey to harmony.
* Everything we do first starts in the mind, then it becomes an action.
* Cheating happens from those who have very little communication skills. And if cheating happens with this person, it will be easy to repeat it with the next person.
* It’s okay to admit that you are not marriage or commitment material. Honesty to yourself, then honesty to your lover.

* If you strongly suspect it to be true, then it must be“. Intuition comes from the loving direction of spiritual truth.
* Honesty shouldn’t wait til after the fact, honesty is best expressed before mistakes. Keeping that line of communication open, and trusting in talking about the things that are difficult.
* In truth, when a person has cheated even to the smallest degree, it’s a sign that your relationship is not forever, and to stay in it beyond what’s comfortable would be destructive. Continue on Relationships.
* Cheating creates a ton of karma; spiritual dept. The Karmic Path

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