Know Your Limitations

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The solar flairs that we’re having are helping to accelerate the vibrational frequency of our Earth and solar system, and in so doing it’s pulling us along with it. The one thing that elevates our awareness more than anything, is fine tuning our ability for emotional navigation. So as our vibrational frequency rises, we find ourselves be bombarded by emotional issues, and from this we see nearly everyone as being in reactionary mode. We see this evidence of our need for personal space in the greater distance between cars in a line-less parking lot or on a winter’s day.
This is a great time to be intuitively acute to one’s emotional boundaries, and to remove ourselves from situations so we aren’t overloading our emotions. Know your limitations. Take a day off for your own emotional healing, a few hours at least, of time without responsibility. (children are the exception) Or a little bit every day. For this is that intense time we warned about, and the opportunity for life affirming moments.
Go in peace.

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Life’s Obstacle Course

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When it comes to emotional navigation, those who tend to be angry most of the time are getting angrier, and those that want peace are getting better at navigating their happiness. Anger is an emotion that paints itself in a corner, in which it can’t see out. There’s no compromise or discussion about change, because they can’t separate out the difference between who they are, and their behavior.
When dealing with someone who is expressing anger, we have to remember that everything that comes out of them is all about them, and everything that comes out of us is all about us. And the second most important thing is after such an encounter, to process this experience out of our field completely, and as soon as possible. So it doesn’t run our lives; it isn’t what makes those life decisions for us.
If you live with someone who loves the expressions of anger, and you don’t. You need to carefully reconsider why you’re in this relationship. The polarity in this world between love and fear is becoming more abundantly clear. Some of these angry people are in the mode of self-destruction, this is something they can’t see past, and it may not be such a wise choice to be standing next to them when they do.
Our spiritual love and compassion for them gives us the insight to see that when they are at their worst, they are with God, and that there is no guilt or shame in having the need to step out of their environment to protect ourselves.

For those of us who are sensitive to the world of aggression, need to stay focused with our own immediate environments, and the quality there of. Stay out of discussions with aggressive people, unless you want to be in harms way. Keep your friends close to you, share your deepest feelings in those safe environments.

This aggressive world is how it’s going to be for a while, there’s nothing we can do to change it now, it has to play itself out. Our solar system is accelerating from the 3rd, through the 4th dimension and into the 5th vibrational dimension, which is vibrationally the beginning of the Angelic Realm. So all this low dense aggression won’t be able to exist in those higher fields of expression, it will either transform or die. To help us from being effected by it, we will have to manage our own immediate environments; follow our own happiness. This is a personal journey (less confrontation with others, and more follow through on your own best ideas-from yourself for yourself-happiness).

Know that all TVs, cell phones, laptops… All devices have cameras and microphones that are recording and cataloging… Spying on everything about our daily lives. I gave up my cell phone and went back to a landline, and I built a cabinet for my TV. So when it’s not in use, I close the cabinet, and it becomes a sound proof box. (Please watch what you say in front of your TV, for it is listening) If you can remotely turn on and off something, so can someone else. So when we walk in this world with eyes wide open, we will be less surprised by the shenanigans of others, by guarding the sanctuary of our happiness.

Go in peace.

Undeniable Truth

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Deep in my meditation an undeniable truth comes forward: throughout all the challenges this life is producing: “we are curled up in the lap of God, while having an earth bound dream of the human experience“.

Blessings…

Crack in the Wall

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I spent a good portion of my life trying to help friends into the light, that I forgot that it was I who just needed to act on my own advice.
When we hang out with those still stumbling in the dark, we too become angered by the lack of movement forward, and I spent a lot of time in this space until I decided enough was enough. The moment I surrounded myself with those who lived the action of movement, this crack in the wall allowed me to see God once again, “a memory of returning home”. We see God in things like nature because it’s not standing still; nature is life in layers constantly in the process of becoming. Anger is the one thing that holds us back from becoming, the one moment that’s standing still.
War is the same no matter what year it is, what makes it different is how we choose to express our differences with each other, do we continue to kill or do we learn to compromise. From compromise we discover the rich beauty in the uniqueness we each carry, that is added to the table of life’s feast; the ingredients of architecture within culture, art, food, knowledge… Setting boundaries of participation creates room to breathe; out of Ego and into Spirit. One of God’s favorite miracles is “that” movement of us changing our minds, enough so to profoundly effect our lives in a positive way from that moment forward.
First we go through this process within ourselves, then in our relations, and last with the world at large.
Movement that creates real trustworthy change comes from that spark of our inner joy, and sometimes what gives us the space to explore this joy is to remove ourselves from those still stumbling in the dark; an act of self-love. I can better see God in myself when I am moving forward, even though our humanness loves that consistency of routine.

Blessings…

Telepathic and Empathic

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We’ve all had those experiences in which we’re thinking of someone, then the phone rings and it’s them. Or you’re driving down the road, and you decide not to pass the person in front of you, because you get the sense they are about to turn. Telepathy can also be in finishing their sentences, or having the feeling that you’re needed by a friend. Having a well developed telepathy can replace the telephone. Telepathy is a person to person communication, without the face to face conversation. Because telepathy is part of our extra sensory perceptions, and one of the characteristics of our Light-body/Spirit. For the most of us it operates through the subconscious and very automatic, without us having to think about it. This ability may come in many forms: sensing that something isn’t quite right, a simple knowing of it to be true or not, a quiet warning, or a warm and fuzzy feeling that it’s going to be okay, and so much more. Because telepathy is part of our internal processing of the world, the most of us pick up messages through it without ever knowing that, that’s what’s going on.
Few of us want to become more conscious and fine tune the actions of it, simply because it requires us to slow down, quiet the mind, and learn to trust.
Some women have it slightly stronger than men, simply because of children, it’s part of the mothering instinct. Men have it with business; where and when to get involved, and the ability to look into systems of business.

* Telepathy is: If you’re doing something that requires focus and attention, and someone just pops into your mind, then they are thinking of you. Where as if a smell or picture reminds you of them, then those thoughts of them are your own.
* Empathy is an action for or towards someone.
* Empathic is an awareness of another person’s emotions or intentions.
As our empathic awareness awakens, we discover another level of emotions to learn how to navigate. Both empathy and compassion can be one of the toughest lessons to bring into Divine balance. Because of earth’s lessons of duality, first we learn how to be empathic and compassionate for other people. As in learning the needs of others. Then we learn how to use empathy and compassion as tools to navigate self-awareness, self-love and self-loyalty. And boundaries is a tool that gives us permission to create healthy space between giving too much to others, and bring forward enough attention to ourselves for our own sense of personal balance.
By learning compassion with people we learn to open ourselves up to experiencing emotions of those around us without verbal communication. Being empathic is an extra sensory perceptional tool that gives us the ability to navigate emotions of both people and animals, and promotes a choice of whether or not to get involved.
Unfortunately most people don’t want other people to know their feelings, as in they don’t want to be seen all the time. So if telepathy and empathic abilities are too loud for you and it’s creating waves in your relationships, then learn how to shift your awareness from your intuitive sight (3rd eye), and move into and learn to think and process with your heart center.
Because humans have the “God Spark” everything is filtered through that, making telepathy apart of our extra sensory perception (ESP). Because when telepathy is mixed with the intuition and clairvoyance, we tend to see SO much more than what the other person needs to say. (When we start talking about aliens with telepathy like the Gray’s, they have telepathy however they don’t have the “God Spark”, and all that comes with it.)
If you want to fine tune it and open that channel, and start to have the sense of to-which it’s coming from. It’s done through the intuition and those higher fields of the perception of “God connection”. So take the feeling of love, and elevate into those higher fields of perception where that love is no longer for someone or something. You’re just immersed in the empowerment of love and gratitude, and that is “God connection”.

* If you’re interested in sexual power, then read Power and being Powerful.
* Telepathy comes into our “thinking centers”, while empathy comes into our “emotional centers”, a sexual experience is through our “physical sensations”, and astral sex is experienced through our “feeling centers”. So it’s not telepathic sex it’s astral sex. So please learn the correct terminology. If you’re interested in protecting yourself from the invasion of remote-viewing and astral sex, go to Energy Shielding.
* Sending a message is done in a “one phrase” sentence. “Call me”, the image in your mind is pulling them in close to you, and with and gentle emotion of “need”. Or “I’m thinking fondly of you”, where the image in your mind is seeing only them, as in a warm embrace… Or. Too much information becomes confusing, and the receiver won’t pick it up. Allow the emotion of this statement to fill your body, while thinking only of them.
* Receiving a message is done through the intuitive space; open the heart, step into “God-space”, and trust in your impressions. These messages will be quiet and in the back of your thoughts. The more that you are self-aware, the more that you will know the difference between “your thoughts” and those of someone else coming in. This takes practice; see if you can know who is calling you before you answer the phone.

* Understanding the difference between telepathy from astral sex or remote viewing are completely different, and most people get that terminology mixed up. Astral sex: is in having a need to connect to someone, a specific someone. When you have a dream of having sex with someone you know, or someone you’ve never met as an out-of-body experience (OBE) or remote-viewing, and that is done on the Astral plain. This experience can be taught.
* Sensing someone’s sexual energy from across the room is done through the Mental Field. When we are out-and-about in the world, and get that sense that we are being watched, that means simply that someone or something has entered our mental field. Our mental field is a part of our ESP. It’s apart of the spirit and not of the physical body. Through this awareness we can tune-in and get the sense if it’s a man or woman, person or animal, kind or warning, sexual or neutral, or… Depending upon your sensitivities and your environment, your mental field can have the reach of about 300 yards. Heighten your awareness, and you can reach out a bit further.
The other is our Emotional Body, this is also a part of our ESP. To be empathic is to feel and connect to the emotions of others, while the emotional body is a field of not only perception; it’s also a field of understanding that guides us through the emotional navigation of those around us. Understanding emotional boundaries, or being able to anticipate emotional needs. The emotional body is where we process our emotional perceptions, and a healthy emotional body stays within the boundaries of one’s own personal space (she’s not telling him how to live his life).
* Tuning into your sexual partner through the art of telepathy isn’t quite like reading their mind, it’s more like reading their intentions [intention is focus of thought], and gives you a strong sense of what their most likely to do next.
* The person you’re sending messages to also needs to be in a quiet space to receive. If they are in a war torn environment, all of their senses will be on survival, and quite the opposite of being quiet. However, your quiet hope filled and agenda free persona will give them peace when they slow down enough to pick it up from you. “It’s the feeling they get when they think of you”. If you’re angry with the world, they will pick up on that, and it will compound with what they are already feeling.
* Unfortunately those interested in telepathic sex, are lacking in responsible emotional boundaries. They have forgotten how to use their words. When healing these wounds, one will realize that trust is more powerful than control.
* Sending telepathic messages are best sent by images with emotion, not by words spoken in the mind.
* Communicating to animals using telepathy is done through images. When you give a command to a dog using words or hand signals while also having images in your mind, they will be more responsive. An image attached to an emotion… So in your mind it becomes almost like a solid object, and the animal responds quickly.
* If you’re ingesting fluoride in any volume, it can slow your telepathic responses.

Telepathy is answered prayers.
When we mix our intuition and your telepathy while looking at the people around you, there is nothing they can do to hide from you. Telepathy is a God-given talent that gives the (seer/listening/sensing/knowing…) the ability to see what is hidden more easily, “no more lies”. If you remain quiet, then the truth remains hidden. However, the moment a story is spoken to divert you, and in that moment the truth comes forward. If the seer is not looking, then it remains hidden. If the seer chooses not to look, then it will remain hidden, and all it takes is a peek and it all pops out into the open. Any form of lie or diversion brings it all out into the open.
There are other forms of bringing hidden information to light, all technology, all wisdom, all experience, and yes all hidden secrets are cataloged in the Akashic records. And there are methods that can be taught on how to get into those files.
“God has had enough! Parties over! Everyone out of the pool”! What was once hidden is no longer. Everyone has the ability for telepathy, because it lifts the veil of lies. However, not everyone has the ability for empathy, and the ones that do, have it at different degrees of it. We are here to have very specific experiences, and the ingredient within the personality molds the experience.

My blessings to you…

Still the best form of communication is a verbal face to face. Shoot from the hip, and tell it like it is.

Can A Karmic Relationship Work?

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Karma is in E-V-E-R-Y interaction that is either fearful or lustful, karma can be described as an emotionally imbalanced history with other people, or ourselves. Karma can be seen as all those disruptive, angry and painful, need to be “right” places in our lives. Or karma can be that uncontrollable urge to put them so far up on that pedestal, that if they ever fall off they will never touch the ground. Meanwhile you’re in the mud, and you don’t care as long as they are up there. This is karma, the balance is seeing eye to eye. The balance is equally giving to yourself as much as you give to them, and through the practice of boundaries we begin to step into the ego-less relationship.

Karma is all those expressions that show us just how separated we are from the Loving God; karma is separation from God (or whatever your language is). Karma by definition means dysfunction; ego’s interference in an other wise perfect system. Life on Earth is a lesson in the navigation of ego’s emotions, and how good you are with this shows in the quality relationships you are leading. This includes family, friends, co-workers… Balance doesn’t mean that I sign over my pay check to you, or give you more than I have.

Karma is created when we become separate from “that” of which governs good-will in our lives. So karma shows us how far off our own designated path we are. By doing our inner emotional work, then we are centered in knowing who we are, and following our happiness and excitement we find ourselves firmly on the path intended for us. By this, life moves on silk. When change happens, and life turns a corner without our knowledge, life can become sticky with drama. If we continue to avoid the ownership of our personal issues in our own lives, a lesson is created which we tenderly call karma.

Dark karma comes when we hurt another person in a personal way like a sex crime, or arrogance because we are unwilling to be emotionally responsible for our reactions. Killing on any level: Deliberately hurt someone for personal gain out of greed for one’s own position. Even the act of bulling. All of our responses from fear; anger, gilt, shame… Can and do create the drama of karma. Emotional suffering, which in itself is karma, and compassion is it’s balance. […and for those who don’t understand, compassion is not sexual.]
Each person’s life path is as unique as their fingerprint, as is the karmic lessons that confront us in this life. And through our many incarnations of life after life we all get to be the prostitute, or the murderer, or the spiritual master, or… We all get to experience the human reality in all its shades, and from it we all find forgiveness, compassion and personal empowerment from those life experiences. Then we’ve come full cycle back into God’s grace.
This pattern of life after life does not take us from a babbling idiot to a saint. The order in which lessons come, is the order in which your soul is learning. So by this we can be a saint in one life then a prostitute in the next, simply for the lessons to learn within those characters, and it’s all about learning out of ego’s fear and into God’s love as the action of your heart’s compassion.

Karma is not a punishment, it is simply the opportunity to look at the subject differently.

Karma is God’s tough-love to us.
Karma is a teacher, asking us in what ways can we be emotionally responsible.
Each person you feel a strong emotion for is a relationship that is dripping with karma. Whether it’s a lover, family, best-friend, boss, passer-by, any emotional interaction with people (lust or hate) expressed in a moment or throughout a lifetime. We can even have karma with ourselves, as in not honoring, acknowledging or standing up for ourselves when we feel the slightest hint of resentment, and therefore pushing us to find the need to return to balance for ourselves.
Karma holds you up against the other person in such a way that your experience of them is over-the-top intense. It holds you up against the wall or the other person, feet dangling in the air or floating in the clouds. Karma holds you there so you can’t move, forcing you to look at it. Karma gives you NO choice; it holds you there and has you face it!!! And the very moment you see the illusion in it, and you take back your power, it drops you. Then sets you free, and from there we find new relationships with new lessons and new opportunities for growth. Each lesson learned moves our soul toward wholeness and free from the drama of karma.

Ego plays a huge role in the understanding of karma. Most of the karma we come across is because of a unchecked ego and dysfunctional pride. The ego wants us to dive into temptation, and the ego wants us to be unaccountable and free of commitment. Unfortunately this action leads to unhappiness, simply because higher reasoning leads to love. Accountability displays no staying-power.
The ego-self and the god-self are complete opposites, and karma shows us just how extreme that is. Which part of yourself are you feeding, your ego-self or your god-self?

“Everything” that we think or do that is out of alignment with The Loving God is recorded and cataloged, and needs to be paid back with the balance of forgiveness and compassion. The action of this payback The Spirits call karma. Every thought, no matter how small that is out of alignment with God, every emotion that is out of alignment, every action, and every spiritual teaching that is out of alignment with The Loving God will be paid back as karma. Every place in our lives where God has been replaced by Ego creates a shock wave of karma, and that disrupts balance. So from the loving actions of our spiritual guidance, we are put into situations with opportunities to experience and see life differently, as to have the choice to resolve the issue with forgiveness, and cycle out of anger and back into compassion.
To those of us who have awoken to this truth, are serious in the ways that understands the very real consequences of karma, and the conscious journey of returning home to The Loving God.
The book set –“Course in Miracles”, teaches us how to open, transform and to live with the empowerment of the guiltless mind. Because only a guiltless mind can not suffer.

Karma that is seen as a beautiful thing we call dharma, as in being paid back for good deeds [good deeds seen by humans and good deeds seen by spiritual guardians can be two very different things].
Personal growth, as in removing the dysfunctional ego, brings balance toward spiritual freedom; spiritual love. Or the kind of dharma that comes through as devotion, or comes through generosity.
Creating good dharma comes from doing the right thing over the easy thing, and how that dharma comes back to you is up to your spiritual guardians. Simply because they know when you’re honestly acting from your heart, or when you’re just trying to gather points.

A simple way to understand karma is to see life as one big classroom, where karma is both the teacher and the lesson. A life of empowerment or enlightenment requires us to show up in class, pay attention to the lesson, doing our inner work of slaying our emotional dragons; transforming all our fearful reactions into loving responses, and have presence of mind to allow that lesson to affect our life in such a profound way, to empower and enlighten our experiences. As well as to empower the experiences of those around us.
Karma is taking us all back to school to move our lives forward, and it’s completely up to us to pass the class or come back in the next life to repeat it.

When we allow another person to govern our own personal emotions, we call that karma.
Bringing karma to completion does not mean ending the relationship, or that you fall out of love with them. It means transforming our awareness, and being responsible with our emotional reactions. It means being realistic about who’s in control of your happiness/excitement. As in keeping clear of your individual identity in all its forms; you’re not getting lost in the other person. So the other person is not responsible for making you happy, you are, and when you follow and stay in control of your own happiness, then your life is empowered. You’re following your own happiness and your lover is along for the fun, as you are for them. If at any time you step into and are a part of the decision of another person, you ask yourself “does this inspire and energize me”? A simple yes or no, and by following that “yes” you surround yourself with empowerment, and that keeps you clear of karma! For this to work for you, you have to truly be honest to yourself. So when I say “I can’t live without you”, I’m allowing my dysfunctional ego to create a wall. Not being able to live without you creates a dysfunction for me, because I’m shrinking my infinite loving space into fear. That fear of losing something (you). The bigger the fear the smaller the box in which I exist. All this because I allow ego to make my choices, and karma is the box and the wall. Letting go of this fear, I discover that I feel love whether I’m with you or not.
So, can a karmic relationship work? Yes, if you have the courage to venture into the realm of the ego-less relationship. Because if we look at this head on, we will see karma as ego, so therefor every bit of your life is your responsibility to shift out of all egoic patterns. The very minute you declare your relationship a disaster, is the moment you need to step out of it. Or back up, and look carefully at how you got there. Blaming the other person for your mistakes is an emotional cop-out, which just leads to more chaos and deeper karma”. To transform this disaster we have to look closely at the dysfunctions of our own ego. Which is described on the page Boundaries and Personal Power.

Couples who have a close bond are ones where their karma is also entwined. If you are actively working on your karmic issues, and the other is not. Then it will feel as though you are walking in deep sand up hill. This is where communication is so important. Having trust when it’s time to talk about the difficult things. “Trust”: talking about Anything that hurts you, and knowing they will not leave you.

Karma teaches us how to heal from ego’s romantic love, with all its sacrifices; pain and suffering, hoping for something better, and dread “here we go again”. By doing our inner emotional work, as in learning to respond from love instead of fear [anger is fear under pressure], and overall giving command to the obedience of the Higher-self [the lower-self is ego and “poor me”, the higher-self governs our good will]. Which leads into the quiet waters of spiritual love, where support is granted for any direction you choose. Spiritual love is healed karma. “That” without attachments; “that” without conditions of love; “that” of a guiltless mind. The ego-less relationship is the action from this field of spiritual love, and almost completely karma free.
All this requires having good healthy boundaries, a strong sense of self-value, and by giving obedience to your higher-self / higher-power, because karma will show us how much of a mess it can make when we are not practicing healthy boundaries or feel good about ourselves.

In the subject of relationships: karma is that excitement and rush he has in standing in her presence, and there’s nothing wrong with this. (She) finds him more exciting than that of which she feels for her own unique and special self; she forgets herself, and he becomes her reason for existing. This perspective turns you into a twisted heap of emotional mess, and for unknown reasons you’re not quite sure how you got there.
So by checking in with your own sense of “does this inspire and energize me” moment by moment, do we walk with balance. Karma can be harsh and karma can be gentle. Karma is one of those things we don’t see coming, we just open our eyes and find ourselves in it. If for some reason we can’t reach a resolve in our relationship, then maybe we’ll have to change our course with that person. It’s when we come back to clarity of thought, and compassion for them and ourselves is it complete. We still have to be smart as to how much we allow them back into our scared space; we can have compassion for them while they are over there. Bad karma comes as a sign when it becomes uncomfortable, and the interactions are no longer productive.
So by practicing boundaries and personal power, this reduces the karmic connection quite a bit. Because so much of karma has to do with a lack of connection to our sense of good-will. The practice of boundaries comes easy to those who have a good sense of personal value, and those who don’t like themselves very much find boundaries to be a waste of time.

When we have a personality clash with our lover and we can’t seem to get past it, or no-matter what terrible thing was said and horrific thing was done… We keep going back for more.
The act of “attraction” is divinely designed to hold you steady with that person, so the karmic lesson can unfold [that hot and steamy gaze holds your attention so the lesson can play-out]. I know this can be difficult to swallow. Just know that all love and hate relationships are moving in the direction through your personal growth for spiritual resolve. On its way to wholeness towards the ego-less relationship, which in itself is spiritual love; mature love. This is the master design of the direction of life in any realm… To complete the cycles of incarnations and return home to The Loving God.

Karma comes in ways other than just relationships. All diseases like cancer are karmic. Anytime there is something that can’t be avoided and you have to go through the experience of it, is karmic. If you see yourself as the tree that cannot move and therefore are in an unavoidable situation, then simply become the tree and be present for the lesson. Slow down and let the lesson change you, even if it’s just a little bit. If you become bitter by this, you haven’t completed the lesson.

If we abuse someone [hard core abuse; physical (sexual), emotional, mental or spiritual abuse], we may come back, and or be on the receiving end of that abuse, in order to understand and come to the balance of compassion. The way to shorten that experience is to connect to compassion through the art of forgiveness. Compassion for yourself for ending up in this situation, and compassion for them for helping you to connect to the need to find balance in yourself, no matter how harsh it may seem. This does not mean that you stay in an abusive relationship. However, if you leave one abusive relationship, then find yourself in another one. Then through forgiveness, healing both that which is given, and that which is received we are then able to step out of that hardship.

  • Quantum Forgiveness
    To Your Self: I am spirit, my body is only an illusion, it has nothing to do with what I really am.
    To Other Person: You are spirit, whole and innocent, all is forgiven and released.
    Repeat this as often as the feelings arise, in a way that brings you back to compassion, and or back to an emotional neutral space.
    From the book collection -“A Course in Miracles”, by Helen Schucman, published by Foundation for Inner Peace.

The desire of having a relationship succeed comes because the attraction is So Great, and the experience can feel very powerful. Who wouldn’t want it to succeed? Karma’s one of those things that when we start to look at it, patterns begin to emerge that show the truth of it. Then when our conscious understanding moves beyond a certain point, we can no longer go back to our old understanding. A meaningful relationship operates from the ego-less environment, it comes from love not fear. So be mindful of what you’re reacting from, and what you’re giving your attention to, love or fear.

Wanting a karmic relationship to work, is a bit like thinking you can be your authentic self, while in the presence of the most beautiful person in the world to you. You may for the first 10 minutes, although by the end of the day you will become someone else. This nonalignment is deliberately designed by God to teach us non-attachment and impermanence by imperfection. Because in truth, only the God realm is perfectly permanent.
Karma is where we want to give to the other person more time, more love, more attention than “that” of which we are willing to give to ourselves, and karma shows us “that” imbalance. There is the obvious, and then there are the finer details. It’s all here to give us the opportunity to look and act with it in a different way, and bring it back into personal balance. Can’t behave the same way and get different results.

Pure devotion does not need to say that it’s being loyal, devotion is the automatic action of loyalty. If you need to tell someone that you’re going to be loyal to them, then you’re coming from a place of hesitation. Devotion as pure as it is, is still karma. If we sacrifice ourselves for the devotion of others, we create self-karma. This is what imbalance between giving to others and giving to ourselves looks like. Even though the ego will insist that you are worth much less, and other people deserve more than you have. So this is why we learn to tone down the dark character of ego, and learn to give our attention to the God-self / intuitive-self. Our God-self is in fact in love with us, where the ego-self is not. So in learning to think and feel with our hearts, keeps us connected to our God-self and freedom from self inflicted suffering. (Our God-self has absolutely nothing to do with religion. It’s simply a higher awareness that puts us into a position of higher living.)

If we remove the accusing, the blaming, the judgments of what we find from the act of cheating because of misalignment. Cheating would not take place if genuine love is consistently present, and the cheater is experiencing inadequacies in themselves. Which personally has nothing to do with the other person, even though we would love to make them responsible for our hurt feelings? The Cave of Darkness

The ONLY way to experience love without karma, is to be without physical form and in the presence of God.
The closest thing to real love on Earth springs from the quiet waters of stillness, or spiritual love, this love has no attachments [conditions of love] to how long it will last, what direction it takes, or to whom it’s for. The practice of an ego-less relationship makes the defining edges of the relationship fuzzy, because trust is now automatic and “that” without question. An ego-less relationship is one in which you are constantly aware of the ownership and responsibility of your own emotional ego. Choosing an ego-less relationship is choosing love over fear. Transparency is the backbone of an ego-less relationship. No walls, no bars, no locks, and absolutely no pointing fingers. Therefore no miss communications; everything you feel is yours, everything they feel is theirs, therefore no miss communications.

This life for me is one in which I’m tying-up karmic loose ends, and will do whatever it takes to bring it to completion. Doesn’t mean that I’m not going to enjoy the experience, or that the love I express is not real. In my perspective love is so vast that it allows me space to support my partner [or family member, or friend, or… ] through her karmic issues, especially if that means working me out of her system, as she will with me. All paths lead to God, and karma is the block that falls across that path. So the love I feel for her, is that deep spiritual love and need to help her overcome that block. In the same sense I have this inner devotion for myself to overcome the karma that has been presented.

A karmic relationship is where our unbalanced ego has gotten involved in our interactions with our lover. Jealousy is karma, and ego provides that experience. The reason for life on Earth is to learn to transcend ego, and step into God or intuitive awareness or no matter what that is for you.
Ending a karmic relationship means that you connect to the beautiful and unique YOU; as in coming into alignment with our higher-self or god-self, and in a profound way that wants you to be the master of your own direction. Only you can truly see you, and only you can truly know what you need. When we put the responsibility on someone to provide for us, we have created a situation that will fail, and drama is the result. Acting from personal power is living in empowerment of knowing the direction of your life is YOURS!!! Be in love with someone because they are fun to be with, and not because they complete you. ONLY you can complete you. For anyone else to do that, it’s just a guessing game. So in this, karma shows us what is illusion and what is truth, the illusion is made to be a difficult path to follow, and the truth is made to be easy. So pay close attention to those things that come easily into alignment for you.
It’s always your choice to ignore the messages of a karmic relationship, ignorance is bliss. However the truth of it is: the more conscious you become of the history and messages of your karmic connection with your partner or yourself, the less easy it’ll become to ignore the actions that must follow. It’s God’s will that we learn and overcome. It’s up to you just when you arrive at God’s front door. Karma is a spiritual language to describe the process of growing into God.
The only one that can love you more than life itself is God, and because his love is not physical we search for it in other people. And karma is here to teach that there is only God. The only true validation comes from The Loving Spirits. When we seek validation in people, what we get is a projection from their emotional life experiences. This is divinely designed to not ever match your truth. And when we have gone as far as we can in the realm of empowerment… We find God. If the term “God” is not your flavor, use the one that does, or use Love In Action. In the world of love and god there is no “me and I”, there is only “we and us”
So the gift of life is to connect to and come into alignment with the God within you [at one with], that most precious gift that you are, above anything else, and when you both see this light in each other, then you have a match. When we see and connect to this, we are now empowered with the light of truth. Having a spiritual practice of daily god-connection lightens the physical matter that we are; it accelerates the vibrational frequency that we are. Think of a spinning disk, the faster it spins the less will stick to it, and our life-lessons or karma is the mud that wants to stick to it. So the more god-awareness we as individuals have, the shorter our journey becomes in finding our way home to The Loving God.
This does not mean ending the relationship by giving all of our attention to God, it simply means the quality of time spent in spiritual worship, and the quality time spent in sexual partnership is equally empowering. Personal guidance doesn’t come from the relationship it comes from the clarity of worship. “Spiritual attention is the balance to all ego’s chaos”. Learning to shift from the laws of karma, and into the laws of grace, and those laws of grace are ego-less. First very balanced in yourself, then highly active with others.

Balance in relationships is where you are not pushed around by the emotional imbalance of others. Your connection to the higher frequencies of Source Energy keeps you in tune with the active responses of your happiness. You are aware of the unique you, and the direction those steps empower. When you are in that place in you, your relationships will reflect that attention given. It’s not about self-righteousness, it’s about ownership of your own inner and outer balance. Which in turn brings about depth and presences into all your relationships. We can’t just drift in relationships, and expect them to magically happen. We have to actively participate. Then from this practice the ego-less relationship begins.

Walking out the door, and out of that situation without cleaning out your emotional experiences of that past relationship; without clearing them out of your emotional field, will land you right back into that same situation again. Either with them or with someone like them. To learn this lesson and move beyond requires one to process that person out of your chaotic emotions, and into a field of compassion or neutral space. This takes time and practice. You can tell when you’ve moved through this, when they are no longer in your daily conversations. When every other person you meet doesn’t remind you of them, then there’s an expressed freedom of moving on.

In truth there are two realities in play: the ego with its greed, pain and suffering, or God awareness with its abundance, love and happiness, and all points in between. Through the many cycles of incarnations and karma, we’ve all passed through similar lessons, and even though the lessons are unique, the master design and plan is the same.

Blessings…

“If you suspect your spouse of cheating, and through revenge you find a way of using technology to spy on them. Karmically you’re still not learning the lesson; you’re still not standing with clarity of your direction for your integrity. Instead you’re being ruled by your emotions.
The moment you discover someone is cheating on you, you confront them, if it continues you turn your back on them and walk out the door! If you spy on them until you have something to wave in their face, then you are stooping to their level, and this compounds the karmic connection. A path of revenge for them, and more importantly resentful suffering for yourself, lands you in the next life with them yet again! And maybe that time you get to be the man, and she still cheats on you again”!!! Cheating creates karma for them, however when you engage in revenge then that karma also becomes yours.

In the movie “the Holiday”, Iris played by Kate Winslet is in a so-called relationship with Jasper played by Rufus Sewell. This is a classic example of a karmic relationship, and in its end shows one of the many wonderful ways to bring karma to its completion.

Notes:
* An attachment: are your conditions of love, “I will love you if you are this… “.
* Karma can push and pull at you in the same sense as an alcoholic who owns a bar / pub.
* Karma is a spiritual language that describes an opportunity for positive change. Karma Is NOT spiritual energy; karma promotes spiritual energy, for spiritual energy is your inner conscience, or your elevated awareness. (Karma is the ground floor, and karma promotes you to elevate your awareness to the upper floors.)
* Overcoming spiritual karma is remembering that you are always the student, and a very humbling experience.
* Overcoming relationship karma means to discover that “you are more precious to yourself, than your lover is to you”. And this standard becomes how you navigate all relationships. Only you know exactly what it is that you need, the other person is just guessing.
Giving into the urge to have sex with a karmic connection, keeps karma active. Shifting your attention away from sex and affection, and into self-empowerment / self-loyalty, or what “inspires and energizes you” separate from them… dims karma’s light and its hold on you. You’re in love simply because you find them fun and interesting to do things with, and not because they complete you. What completes you, is that part in which you’re in charge of.
* If you find yourself going through a lot of partners, or feeling as though partners are always leaving you. This is a sign that you’re surrounding yourself with the wrong people; this is where your life has not followed change around the corner, and somehow you missed the signs and are now wondering around out in that cornfield. Returning to your path requires a change of course with the people and situations you surround yourself with, and karma is your compass. Ignore it, and it will become more challenging. Follow it and learn from it, and the painful karma will greatly soften and fade. If it doesn’t feel right, then learn to look at it with new eyes, and in a different way. Then learn to follow “that” with the actions that support it.
* How to burn through karma: When processing emotionally charged issues that we have no control over: By immersing ourselves in the emotion of it without getting caught up in the story of it, we can then choose to “feel” the experience of it, without engaging in the “expression” of it. By this we burn through the emotional charge [anger, resentment, guilt, regret… ], attachment or karma of that connection, and we begin to experience freedom from that issue, person or situation.
* The truth about karma: everyone has it and until you learn how to navigate it, it will pull and tug at you in ways that will keep you guessing. Karma is an intervention by God, and really… the only way through it or out of it is to turn and face it. Karma is your lesson to learn, and because it comes from the Loving Spirit of Truth, there is NO WAY for you to avoid it or dump it on someone else.
A truth about karma is it’s an issue that belongs only to you. If you have karma with (Bill); lover, friend, brother… , whatever the issue is, it is yours to work through, “Bill” is only here to show you just what the issue is, and if he has issues with you then that is his work to do. If you step outside the sacred circle of marriage and have an affair, you create the karma of honesty with your fling, the karma of loyalty with your spouse, and the karma of truth with yourself. It’s not about them, it’s all about you because it’s “your karma, your lesson, your healing”. It’s our ego that wants the other person to be responsible for our happiness and our karma, it’s not about them… it’s all on you. [(This is what I call “Hell on earth” even though it comes from pure love.)] The attraction you have is divinely designed so you will not be able to avoid the lesson. Understanding and learning how to navigate karma is learning how to see the forest through the trees; or understanding the secret mystery of life.
What Spirit is trying to teach us through the lessons of karma, is that we as individuals are very precious and the only true relationship is with God. Any human relationships are a borderline mess. When we live in the empowerment of an ego-less relationship and practice healthy boundaries life comes at us with joy, and when we follow this path off the map… we find God. And that dear one is us coming full cycle. The closer we are to God, or “the action of God”, the further we are from ego.
* Karma is God’s way of holding us accountable for our own emotional reactions with others – past and present.
* If you are in an abusive relationship, the way out is to openly and often “out loud” express independence from them [gentle yet firm]. And by doing this you step into empowerment. When your expressions are centered; not angry, they are more productive
* All karma is in situations that give you that “can’t live without” feeling or that “can’t live with” feeling in relationships. Being with someone who doesn’t see or understand you is a relationship divinely designed just for you to heal and overcome this issue. To take this precious love you have for someone who doesn’t see you, and give it to yourself instead. This is where we stop being a servant to others and start being a servant to ourselves. When you see your own self in a finer light than anyone else can, then you’ve crossed over into personal empowerment. And once you’ve crossed over, the relationships that you allow in your life, will treat you the way you do for yourself or better. Anytime someone treats you from a place of “less than”, then a boundary is created.
* Understanding karma gives us the knowledge and wisdom to navigate incarnations more quickly, and when we take this inner work to heart we discover short-cuts in the path leading home to God.
* Navigating karma requires one to pay attention, gently doing your inner emotional work. Letting go of anger, guilt, and shame or… and creating peace within yourself, about any given situation that pushes your emotional buttons. Then surrounding yourself [not them] with empowerment. Karma takes us away from, or out of balance with self empowerment. And as we learn to surround ourselves with self empowerment, we draw in relationships or situations of balance!
* When we are pushed into feelings of death, because we feel that is the only way out. When in truth the part of us that needs to die is NOT the physical body, it is a part of the emotional body that needs a cleansing. As we go through adolescence we adopt behavioral traits that help us to survive that transition, and all those emotions that come with the explosion of the chemistry in our bodies. However as we move into adulthood, we no longer need those survival traits. In fact, survival traits and a deep meaningful relationship don’t match, to have one we have to let go of the other.
So when we have a need to die, it is really Spiritual Guidance coming forward to remind us of what it is that no longer serves us, that needs to fall away; needs to die. It’s a gentle transitioning in our behavior.
A need to commit suicide is our spiritual self asking us to change our emotional environment; the people we hang out with, changing the situation so it comes into more alignment with who you are becoming. It’s time for a change of scenery; it’s time to upgrade, and create space to come into alignment with your calling.
* Gay men are learning how to navigate and process emotional/sensitivities.
Gay women are learning how to navigate and process power/leadership/emotions.
* Karma doesn’t care whether you want to do this or not. Your soul needs to learn this lesson to overcome this issue, and have this experience so it can take the next step along its journey.
* The truth in all of this is that karma is everywhere; it’s a description of the process of learning. It’s when we get caught up in the finer details in such a way that it holds us back from living, and then we know we are taking this all too seriously.
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To make a relationship work takes focus and attention. Love and passion are something that needs nurturing and space to grow, all relationships need breathable space; time together and time with friends. Keep talking about the things that matter, pay attention to the things that don’t work, and continue asking yourself “what is it that I can do with you, that is positively different from yesterday”?

By having karma with him, she is out of balance with herself. She forgets all so easily what her personal hopes and dreams were, and he becomes everything for her. Karma shows us the extreme of this imbalance.
* Can you save a karmic relationship after leaving? Yes, it’s called the ego-less relationship, and it’s a position in which you both must participate. The ego-less relationship when approaching it from a karmic understanding, helps greatly if the boundaries aren’t restricted like in a traditional marriage. So we have the freedom to reconstruct the shape of the relationship if need be.

By asking questions of karma we step into a new light, “a soul-mate is a classmate in the school of soul”. Peering through this window we see karma as a path in the realm of Soul… an understanding coming together for the progression of our soul’s journey.

If you want this to be your last life on Earth, if you want to end all karma no matter what soul age you are, and if you want the short-cut in returning home to God. Have the practice of seeing God in EVERYONE. Learn the lesson of compassion.
Learn to walk away from hate, and learn to love instead of fight.
If there are people in your life who push your emotional buttons then the only true path through that relationship is forgiveness… forgiveness without judgment. And if all else fails and you still can’t get past the conflict, then step away from them and away from the situation through the act of self-loyalty.

*** Quantum Forgiveness
When You Feel Judgment to Yourself: I am spirit, my body is only an illusion, it has nothing to do with what I really am.
When You Feel Judgment to the Other Person: You are spirit, whole and innocent, all is forgiven and released.
Repeat this as often as the feelings arise, let this become a mantra in your mind.  From the book series -”Course in Miracles”
Reading the book –The Course in Miracles will help to open your mind and move you faster along this path.

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It’s A Guy Thing

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There is an instinctual response men have when we hear her wants and desires. Men immediately go into build and provide mode when we hear what tickles her fancy, and we will rearrange our lives even to the point of looking like a complete idiot. This response for the most part is very unconscious.
If a woman in his life is very important to him, and he hears her say something along the lines of wanting decadence in her life. He will go to such extremes to rearrange his life to acquire such wealth. He will spend every penny he has to go after that big Jackpot, and more often than not, this behavior will continue throughout his life, even if she is no longer with him.
Women LOVE this about men; a man’s ability to protect and provide, on all levels easily and effortlessly. However guys need to stay focused on providing what they are good at, and not getting lost in trying to become what he thinks she wants. This guy thing needs to be something we know about ourselves, especially if we are seeking that inner and outer balance for ourselves. A value that is expressed through the balance of giving to others and giving to ourselves. Because this providing is instinctual, the choice of creating that balance can be achieved through the consistent practice of catching yourself in it, “oh I’m doing it again”, then, without judgment shift the pattern. Instinctual behaviors are tricky that way, different from emotional behaviors which can be simply changed by changing your mind.
In relationships, this is not about him getting his own way. This is all about shifting the awareness into giving from a higher conscious awareness, so there’s more meaning and depth in the giving, and not so ego driven or driven by chemistry.

As we shift into those higher fields of love and gratitude, we shift away from instinct and into intuitive responses. Because as a species we no longer need to be concerned with so much survival. The world is shifting into those higher fields of frequency with or without us. We can either choose to move with it, by which we govern our responses appropriately and become apart of it. Or we find a way to leave.
A higher conscious awareness is easy to obtain, simply focus on behaviors that create a win-win.

My blessings to you…

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